Me + Online Dating = Epic FAIL!!!

So I took some advice from Bestie and decided to try out online dating, since meeting my future ex-husband by chance wasn't gonna happen. I hopped on the usual sites like Match.com and Blackpeoplemeet.com, but I kept attracting the 40+ crowd and that's waaay too old for me. So Bestie suggested this site called Tagged. Let me just say if you like old men, smoked out dudes, ugly guys, lying mofos, wannabe superstars, thirsty niggas, OR all the above, whose messages start like "aye gimme yo numba, wat up wit ya, I wanna suck yo toes, what's good ma, reply back wit yo numba, I wanna eat yo pussy" and so on and so forth .... then Tagged is the place for you! But anyway, I get on set my little profile up and release it to the world. Instantly I get requests and messages, but nothing from a guy that has any type of potential.Then one day I get a request and message from a guy who was actually cute and within my age range(28). We chat it up online for awhile and I am really feeling him, so I give him my number. After a a few days he finally calls me. He has: 
1) a nice voice
2) good conversation
3) a cute laugh


We really had good conversation. I mean I was really getting excited about meeting him and seeing where this could possibly go. Then things just changed and went downhill from there.


So one day, I text him ya know,, just a "Hey how's your day going?" type of text,, and he responds: really bad...


Me: awww what's wrong?


Him: I lost my place today


Me:Oh.


Him:I don't know what I'm gonna do


Me:I mean what happened?


Him: I guess my folks got tired of paying my bills...


Me: Oh


Him: I don't have anywhere to go.


Me: Oh. I'm sorry...

Now, I'm thinking at 28yrs old, WHY in the hell are your parents footing your bills??? Also, staying in an apartment you knew eviction was coming, 'cause if you don't pay the complex, they put past due notices on your door,, they don't mail that kinda shit! So, was yo ass just ignoring the notices or were you just taking them off the door and giving them straight to your folks? I'm curious how you let yourself get evicted like that. Now don't get me wrong I know that eviction does happen (ya know getting behind because you're not making enough money, or blowing your money cause you don't put your priorities first) But to get evicted because your folks stopped paying your rent and bills and you have no job or emergency money to help out?!?!? 


I feel like this....if my folks are footing my bills I'm gonna go get a job (if I don't have one) and show some initiative that I am trying to get on the path of financial independence. But this nigga just sittin back like he got it, hanging  with his friends all day everyday. The sad part about this whole thing is he told me he was sleeping in his car because his mom wasn't talking to him, not to mention she didn't have a place of her own she's living with his GRANDMOTHER!!!!! Soooooo your mom doesn't have her own spot and yet you depend on her to pay your bills??????  You deserve to be evicted!!!  Not to mention the fact that he has 2 kids!!!!! (according to him, baby momma is married but anyway....) You have 2 kids HOW are you taking care of them and you're not even taking of yourself??? Did you just disregard your responsibility as a father because your baby momma got married,, and you basically said you're gonna let this other dude take care of your kids????? What the HELL!?!?!?!? 


So one day, I call him just to see if he was still sitting around moping or was he trying to do something about his situation. I simply asked him had he talked to his mom and he said "she's not picking up" so I say,, maybe you need to just go over there and talk face to face" he then proceeds to say "I don't have enough gas to make it over there". REALLY??? So were you depending on them for gas money and shit too??


OK now, fast forward a couple of weeks......
According to him,, one of his friends is letting him stay at their place until he gets back on his feet, he got a job, but he hasn't heard from them to get a start date O_o (ummm ok) and last but not least he still wants to meet cause he thinks I'm just so beautiful and I didn't turn my back on him when he hit rock bottom.....


Now, I do have a confession to make... the only reason I'm still communicating with him is because I need a distraction from Sexy Mexi. I need someone to distract me from the constant urge to call or text him so I'm using......hmmmm I didn't give this fella a name,, what shall I name thee????
 I think I will name him "Fishy" because his story is alittle.....well.....fishy.
But I'm using Fishy for company purposes. Who knows maybe he will get his shit together and we can possibly move forward into something and I will have no choice but to let Sexy Mexi go.


We'll see.....